When a beautiful woman walks into the room, all heads turn--men and women alike. There is just something about the beauty of a woman that makes everyone want to take a moment to admire, or maybe even to envy. Either way, it is still provoked by awe. And this is why women have always desired to have beauty. We all want this seemingly magical effect that beauty seems to have on others--especially men. We see how men fall over themselves to get the attention of the beautiful woman in the room. Sometimes it can be frustrating to watch. After all, it's just an image.
Beauty can help a woman get attention, favor, or an opportunity that other women do not have a chance to acquire. However, we mustn't overestimate what beauty can do. Beauty can't get us inside of every room. At some point, we must have an actual skill or talent, or at the very least, a connection to someone important, to get inside certain circles. It's some women's dream that their beauty or sex appeal can take them as far as they would like to go in life, because beauty is all they have to offer. And hey, sometimes women do get lucky enough to go straight to the top off the strength of beauty alone. But even then, there is usually some connection they had to someone that allowed them to get the opportunities they got.
By no means am I saying that beauty holds no weight, because it does. Just start using your beauty more strategically, preferably as a tool to establish connections with people who have the resources to advance you. For instance, people who can advise you, give you a position, connect you with someone, fund your projects, promote your business, or something of the sort. Your beauty can be a blessing to you if you know how to use it in a way that is meaningful. But relying on beauty alone to open all doors for you isn't going to work for most. There must be something more behind the beauty.
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