Competition is necessary for the workforce, business, and sports. But let's be honest: it's a survival mechanism. It's what we do when we feel like something is scarce or at stake. For example, animals must compete for food because it's not a guarantee that they will eat every day. But for most humans, it is. We can fill our refrigerators, stop by restaurants, and eat all day long if we wanted to. This is why we don't compete for food. It's abundant for us, so there's no need to compete.

To live a soft life means to live as stress-free as possible, and a huge part of this is keeping yourself protected. Being exposed to too many "harsh elements" will make you rough and hardened. Then, you'll start to put yourself in situations that a soft woman would avoid. if you haven't noticed, many women nowadays seem to want to be in chaos. They want drama and conflict. They love to argue and be in the middle of a fight. I remember watching a clip of comedian Charleston White getting into a fight on stage at a comedy show. A huge group of men were on stage scuffling, then two women ran up on stage as if they were about to break up a brawl between a group of men. A soft woman would have ran away from it.