When you look at the men you've dated in your past, are you pleased with your selection, or do you look at them and say, "I will never choose men like that again?"
There may be some men in your past who were good for you at the time, but for who you are today, they just don't measure up. There are still lessons you learned from them that can be applied to assist you in choosing better men. Now that you know what you know, how will you prevent yourself from making the same mistakes? Even if the next man you chose to be with isn't "the one", he should be one step closer. The whole point is to find a man who will most likely be the one you can grow old with. If there's a man who seems to have good qualities about himself, but doesn't really mesh well with who you are, dating him anyway could backfire. You would be settling, and there will always risk in settling. Keep this in mind, especially when men are advising you on what type of men you should choose.
Sometimes, men will shame women into choosing undesirable men so that they could have an opportunity to have a woman. But when those relationships don't work out, they will blame the woman and say that she should have never chosen that type of man anyway. But that is the type of man that they previously said to take a chance on! Men often times have this idea that men who are unattractive or have very little to offer should still be given a chance. They will shame women into giving those men a chance, and then also shame those same women for choosing them. Be sure that when you choose better men, you are choosing what you want, and not just choosing what someone else said you should choose. Because when it doesn't work out, you will be the one with egg on your face. Not them.
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